Let God be.

Be deeply convinced that God loves you. My dear A LOT depends on this. If this conviction is deep in your soul it will change how you see yourself and what you produce. If God truly loves you and finds expression through you is it by any mean possible to be anything less than the…

I did it.

I’m human and won’t deny that I too could possibly fall victim. Before I tell you what I did and you judge me just know that: I have done quite a number of things I’m not proud of.  I have at a time used money given to me to pay tithe to buy MP3 player,…

Dear female partner

I have lost sleep thinking of you and so I have decided to write to you. Please I want you to know that when “be fruitful and multiply” was declared in etymology, it had nothing to do with child bearing. It was an instruction to spread and affect lives positively. Know this: he doesn’t need…

Want It

Sometime in 2014 while in the city of Benin, something happened that was going to change everything and believe me, it did change everything. My mum of blessed memory taught me well. She was my first lesson of how a woman ought to be treated. Even though I didn’t spend quality time with her during…

Penis, Vagina, Breasts and Buttocks are their names.

You see … we have become the cause of our own issues. One of the major things that almost ruined my life was my inability to properly call these “body parts” by name. It subconsciously built in me the inability to get sex education as my subconscious mind registered it that ‘these part should be…

On the theory of ‘self-made’

I sat reviewing my life recently and I realised that though I’m not yet where I want to be, I have moved a great deal from where I used to be. And to that I have this to say: In health care I discovered that what really kills the HIV patient is the discrimination because…

The Man Who Died Empty

I will be remembered for how I passionately raised men and women who believed in peace,  serenity and love. I will be remembered as that man that contested the status quo and  radically changed the minds of men to believe that they are gods. I will be remembered as the man who never walked past…

Dear Male Partner

I have become concerned about your reaction to advances made to your beauty queen. Don’t you think that the same thing that attracted you to her would also attract other TDH (tall,dark and handsome) guys? Have you noticed that she has stopped telling you about her toasters? Could it be that she is no longer…

There is no ONE future

This morning, I got a message from someone I respect so much. It was about “unsolicited counsel” and in it he said, “Readiness is the panacea for results.” It reminded me of a lesson I learnt in the line of my work as a counselor. The biblical figure Judas Iscariot, have been said by many…

Paralympics

When I first heard this word, my curious mind went to work, by default. It once and again affirmed that we won’t know, if we think that what we are searching for, doesn’t exist. It is interesting to know that there is a name for what those who are ‘deficient’ do, with regards to sports….

Two Things that kill

I have realised, that these two things are deadly weapons of self-destruction. EXCUSE. I’m an expert at this, or rather, was an expert. The thing about excuses that many well-meaning individuals don’t know, is that there will always be a ‘legitimate’ reason not to do the things you ought to do. When you are able…

Warriors

Yes you might want to die trying but you are worth more alive than dead. We have been taught to confront life heads on but never really taught an important battle tactics. Retreat. The warriors where not really those who die on the battle sand but those who eventually won in the end. Many are…